Sex Positions

Rear Entry Sex Positions

Rear Entry Sex Positions

Many couples have a limited view of what rear entry sex can actually do for them – and no, I'm not talking about the view that the man gets of the woman's behind as he enters her, exciting though that undoubtedly is! No, I'm talking about the range of positions that you can try from the rear – as you can see from the photographs on this page there are plenty of them, and they come in many different forms.

Now, we know that couples who enjoy sexual intercourse on a regular basis tend to stick to the same few sexual positions. But you can change all that! There's no variation of human lovemaking better than rear entry for trying out new positions, as I hope to demonstrate on this page.

To start with, the classic view of rear entry sex is where the woman is kneeling, with the man either standing or kneeling behind her and entering her as he reaches round to fondle her breasts; either that or he may place his hands on her shoulders to get leverage as he thrusts.

Yet there's absolutely no reason why a woman should be kneeling on all fours for rear entry sex – she can have her head down or up; she can be standing with her body bent into a right angle at the hips, or she can have her torso angled more upwards; she can be lying down flat on the bed with her chest down, as the man kneels or lies alongside her or on top of her; and she can even present her vulva to her partner when she's in a variation of the side-by-side lovemaking position.

So rear entry is an extremely versatile sex position, because the various postures that are possible allow all kinds of different sensations: in some of the positions, the man can fondle his partner's breasts, or he can reach round play with her clitoris; in other positions, she can reach round and play with his testicles, and in many of the positions anal play with either their own anus or their partner's anus is possible.

Combine this with the fact that the various postures available for rear entry sexual positions allow either limited or complete bodily contact, and you have a whole panoply of sexual excitement and fun waiting to be explored.

Clearly of course, the one thing you can't really do during rear entry sex is look your partner in the eyes, which if you're a romantic type might be a considerable disadvantage. But to offset this there are plenty of other big advantages to rear entry sex – for one thing, rear entry is probably the position that allows the deepest penetration; for another, men who are visually stimulated by the sight of their partner's rear end, will be really turned on by rear entry sex.

And for another thing, perhaps more important, some women find that rear entry sex allows them to express their deepest and most powerful level of sexuality in an uninhibited way. For those women brought up with the concept of the good girl, the Madonna in the bedroom, rear entry sex allows the expression of a very vital and powerful aspect of feminine sexuality, one that actually allows a woman to express her most powerful sexual urges.

It's important for everyone to have the opportunity during lovemaking to express fundamental aspects of themselves, be that the male instinct to thrust hard and fast and to ejaculate deep into his partner whilst he holds on tightly to her, or a woman's instinct to express her raw sexuality in a very seductive, primal way.

Because, when you think about it, rear entry sex is indeed an instinctual and evolutionary throwback – it's the way that animals mate, it's the way that our ancestors would have mated, and I suspect that when we make love in that way, we too are fulfilling a very deep and animal lustfulness that goes far beyond our polite missionary, man on top, lovemaking postures.

But I think that the meaning and satisfaction of rear entry sex positions actually goes deeper than this; besides fulfilling basic male and female instincts, there's a symbolism to rear entry sex which is something about the complete acceptance by the woman of her man's raw sexuality. She presents herself to him in her most vulnerable form, defenseless, waiting to be taken, impregnated, giving him her body: this is a very vulnerable position for a woman to be in, even within a loving and trusting relationship, and it's an act of great faith for a woman to surrender herself in this way.

Then again, of course, surrendering to a male for the purpose of procreation is a very fundamental aspect of female sexuality, one that goes beyond conscious awareness, and one that drives the wanton sexuality some women express when they're making love in the rear entry position.

Once you go beyond the instinctual and animalistic aspects of rear entry sex, what is there to say about it beyond the fact that there are many possible variations?

Well, the answer is quite a lot. For one thing, so many variations of angles are possible between a couple – and you only need to look at the photographs to see just how many variations of rear entry sex there actually are – that there is a good chance for almost every couple, no matter how large the man's penis, no matter how tight the woman's vagina, no matter whether he's under-endowed or she has a short vagina, to find the absolutely ideal position for making love.

The ideal position, the best sex positions, are the ones in which the couple feel most comfortable, without any strain on her vagina or his penis, the positions in which they get the greatest sexual stimulation and satisfaction.

As I've observed on another page of this website that's actually all about the angle of penetration – as well as the depth of penetration, and to a lesser extent, the degree to which her vagina grips his erect penis.

I've also made the observation that there is no way of predicting which sexual position is going to be most comfortable for a particular couple, and that's certainly true: all I can suggest is that you try out these variations as often as possible until you find the ones that you enjoy the most!

So accepting that a couple will get different sensations from the variations in the angle of penetration, are there any general rules we can put down on paper?

First and foremost, in the standard rear entry position where the woman's kneeling, where she lowers her head and raises her pelvis, her vagina will tighten, thereby providing more friction for the man, which may provoke quicker ejaculation – and for those men who do suffer from premature ejaculation it's worth knowing that is a very good premature ejaculation treatment program to be found here - but will give both partners more feeling.

It will also provide more stimulation on the G spot, which is capable of taking a woman to orgasm during sexual intercourse. At least, it's possible for a woman to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse through vaginal stimulation if her man is capable of lasting for long enough to give her sufficient stimulation - both in terms of frequency and rhythm, and sensual pressure internally. Without the right combination of these things – and few men can last long enough during sex to achieve this – it may be necessary for either the woman or her partner to stimulate her clitoris as they make love, (which is in fact the way that most couples who claim the woman can orgasm during intercourse achieve this result).

Now, I've mentioned that deep penetration is one of the advantages of rear sex, and so it is. However, one of the disadvantages of such penetration is that it is possible for the man's penis to hit the woman's cervix as he thrust into her, and whilst this isn't necessarily a bad thing (because it can stimulate a blended orgasm that involves clitoris, vagina and uterus), in a woman who isn't extremely sexually aroused it can sometimes feel uncomfortable.

So a little bit of caution is necessary, as I say, particularly if the man has a long penis. Keep in mind also that although we tend to think of sex as being something in which the man does most of the thrusting, it's equally possible for the woman to move during intercourse, and there's no better sexual position for her to do this than rear entry.

In classic rear entry, the man can even stand still whilst his partner rides back and forwards on his cock, thrusting her pelvis and giving her an accentuated feeling of wanton sexuality. For many women this is a very powerful turn-on.

As I said above, some of the photographs demonstrate that rear entry sex positions not limited to ones where the woman is lying down or kneeling. Indeed, for a couple whose height is well matched, it's actually possible for a couple to find dozens of variations of rear entry kneeling and standing postures, and in the latter case, the woman can brace herself against a wall to absorb the man's powerful thrusts.

As always, when the woman's torso is exposed – which would always be the case if she's not lying on the bed - it's possible for the man to reach around and stimulate either her breasts or her clitoris, or other parts of her body as he thrust into her, to ensure that she receives the maximum amount of sexual pleasure possible.

It's even possible for a couple who are flexible to kiss during rear entry sex – you can see how this is done in the photographs.

Now imagine that you have a sex position where the man is stimulated by the sight of his partner's bottom, where a woman enjoys her wanton sexuality, and where a couple are turned on by the raw sexuality of what they're doing, not to mention the fact that there's lots of bodily contact, freedom of movement, and the opportunity to just let rip during lovemaking. Well, why imagine? That actually is the reality of the rear entry sex positions!

And even the missing factor of eye gazing (no, you can't usually do this in rear entry sex!) can be overcome if you position a mirror so the man can see her, and vice versa, as they make love.

I'd like to draw your attention to a particular combination of rear entry & side-by-side sex which is very relaxing, extremely sensuous, and can produce wonderful orgasms for both partners (perhaps with a little added hand stimulation for the woman).

So once again, we find that rear entry sex can provide great excitement, not only because it's capable of giving deep penetration – which can be equally enjoyable for the man and the woman – but also because it feeds that wonderful sensation of "taking your partner" for the man, and "being taken" for the woman.

When rear entry sex is combined with a little bondage play, it can become extremely arousing, particularly when a couple take time to engage in a little buttock play – a little slapping, a little hair pulling, perhaps...

It's important that this is all consensual but I strongly recommend exploration of the sharper edges of sex because many couples make love in a kind of "sexual vacuum", by which I mean they have a very cozy sex life, a very familiar routine; they never extend their sexual boundaries and try to discover the things that would turn them on more, edgy things like slapping, biting, S&M play, hair pulling, even dressing up and role play.

There is no better position for trying all this than one in which you are already very sexually aroused, and for most couples, rear entry qualifies on both counts.

To sum up the advantages of rear entry sex, I'd say that for women who are sensitive inside the vagina, in the area of the G spot, rear entry sex positions are a wonderful way to get sexual pleasure and physical satisfaction.

If a man really wants to please a woman, he needs to become a sexual artist, by which I mean he needs to be a man who can control his ejaculation, and who knows exactly how to please a woman, who understands the techniques that will give her satisfaction, the moves and tricks that will speed up her progress to orgasm and will then will keep her on the edge of orgasm in that space where time seems to stop and sexual ecstasy appears to go on for ever.

This requires a certain amount of self-discipline. For a man who's making love in the rear entry position, the sight of his penis entering and withdrawing from his partner's body as his balls slap against her vulva, can be overwhelmingly arousing, and cause him to ejaculate far too quickly.

While I'm strongly in favor of all men who have a rapid ejaculation learning how to control it, if this seems too great a challenge for you, then why not adopt one of the more relaxing rear entry positions - on which is less  arousing, such as the variation of side-by-side sex with the woman lying on her side, her man behind her, with both partners lying together?

This is a sexual position that doesn't promote frantic, urgent sex; it's one that gives itself more to romantic gentle, sex but still offers the opportunity to stimulate the woman's clitoris and bring her to orgasm. Needless to say, it's also good for a woman who prefers a more passive role, or for a woman who is tired or pregnant.

As I've said before, rear entry sex isn't actually the impersonal, animalistic thing some people think it is: in fact, it actually allows for a great deal of intimacy and fondling of her breasts during intercourse.

But this links to one of the challenges of rear entry sex: if a woman is self-conscious about her body, she may feel that the level of exposure she gets is simply too great, particularly if she has saggy breasts or saggy buttocks.

I think it's important for all women to understand that these things are actually far less important to their male partner than they are to the woman concerned. It may seem hard for a woman to believe, but the truth is this: most men are quite accepting of any female body with which they making love!

And if any woman reading this wonders why men find young female bodies so attractive, please understand  there are different forces at work: an aesthetic appreciation of the young female body, but a more familiar, deeper appreciation of the mature partner's body, based in a sense of comfortable familiarity and rewarding sex. For a man, there's no such thing as bad sex - it's all good!